I Sat And Told 12 Dudes I Was A Failure - Bath Kettlebell Society

I Sat And Told 12 Dudes I Was A Failure

Failure

So yesterday I was at an event which is part
of my coaching program…

It was me and 12 other guys all sitting round
getting straight on EXACTLY what we want…

Turns out MOST of us don’t really know…

Many of us guys have had what we thought we
wanted only to realise that (after years of
going after it)…

^^^ It didn’t make us happy…

What then?…

Well in my case I just carried on in a job I
hated but felt I couldn’t leave…

Until I was forced out (mainly because I
couldn’t get passionate about it)…

Now you hear me talk about consistency…
well… consistently…

But when you’re consistently apathetic about
something…

You gotta ask yourself why you do it dude…

And if you decide you have to stop because it
doesn’t get you what you want…

^^^ Does that make you a failure?

I sat in front of 12 dudes and told them I
was a failure (no justification… just a
failure)

That was hard to do my friend…

But what surprised me was that they all
thought the same about themselves…

You see my man… we ALL have our
insecurities…

We all try to hide them and show everyone
else that we’re ok…

But that’s the easy way out…

And whatever it is you’re unhappy with will
eventually catch up with you and bite you on
the arse…

— When you least expect it…

^^^ Just think about that for a second…

Just cos we’re fellas we think fear is a sign
of weakness…

So we surpress that shit…

Which is what ALL fellas do (did you read
that bit about failure above)?

It’s hard to do dude but when you ACTUALLY
face up to your struggles and do something
about it you get power on the other side…

And you become stronger for it…

Now you can try to do this on your own…

Without help from anyone (cos you’re a bloke
and you don’t need help)… Grrrr

But consider this…

If you surround yourself with fellas who are
having the same struggles you get the support
YOU need, when YOU need it
WITHOUT judgement…

^^^ Cos we all get it my friend…

And that’s powerful stuff…

Knowing you’re not alone makes all of this a
damn sight easier to deal with…

And you’ll lose a few pounds and get stronger
in the process…

^^^ Had to chuck that one in there
obviously 😉

Nothing to point you towards today my man…

Just a request that you think hard about what
you want…

Peter

p.s. Nothing here today…

I’m resting and reflecting…

Thanks for looking though…

Back to normal tomorrow…

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Peter Lant

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